Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Every two minutes

In 2007, there were 248,300 victims of rape, attempted rape, or sexual assault. That equates one every two minutes.

The consequences of rape are life altering. In my opinion there is nothing more traumatic. I do not know of any other crime where the victim may be victimized more than just at the time of the crime. They may be mistreated by the justice system, perhaps by her peers or family, and almost always by herself as she re-plays the events repeatedly in her mind. When someone is raped, they are changed forever.

The purpose of this blog is not to solve all of the problems that arise with rape. I am not a professional counselor or therapist. I am someone who has been there. I was raped when I was 19. It has been a long journey of healing to arrive where I am today. After several years, I am able to talk about what happened to me. Through counseling, support groups, mentors and books I have learned a great amount in my quest for feeling whole again. I plan to share what I can. There are many resources on the internet for rape/assault victims. –Many of which I plan to link to and to reference to. I cannot replace a therapist and I STRONGLY suggest that you find one for your healing journey. I only wish to share what I have learned with those who may need it. I know you are out there. Remember…every two minutes someone in America is sexually assaulted.